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英国中考成绩出榜日
今天是英国中考GCSE成绩公布的日子，还好是个惊喜，没有惊吓。整体而言儿子的成绩还是很不错的，高中将要学习的三个科目数学，计算机，音乐全部都是A/A*。
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自从六月份考完全部GCSE科目之后，就开始了漫长的等待。尽管儿子嘴中说的是每科都考的不错。但是我怎么就对他没有100%的信心呢？是太过于关心，还是对儿子信心不足？估计都有吧，毕竟考前的模拟题中，他时不时还会犯一些低级错误，白白丢分。
客观的讲，儿子并不属于那种学霸型的孩子。他偏科非常严重，自己感兴趣的科目，比如数学，音乐，感觉学的还不错，自己的学习动力也很足。据学校老师说在课堂上表现也很积极。但对于他基础较差，或者不太感兴趣的科目，就需要不断督促才行。
也正是因为这个原因，考前半年的一次大型模考中，儿子的表现并不是很好。在学校家长会中，老师也表现了对其中考的担忧。
但变化就发生在那次模考之后。可能他真正意识到事情的紧迫了。自己终于开始发力了，也就是短短4个月左右的时间。变化非常大。原来在写作业的时候是不是开小差，偷偷上网看个视频什么的。但在备考前几个月，从没看到他在摸鱼，实打实的准备复习。
这样在临考前的时候，他自己的信心还是非常足的。模考成绩也都还不错。于是我们渐渐的不再担心他的成绩会差。但是不是能够把自己水平完全发挥出来，心里还是没有底。
但还好。成绩出来了，我们终于可以松一口气了。儿子打算高中选学数学，计算机，音乐。而这三科的中考成绩都是A或者A*。可以说这个成绩完全在意料之中。但没有全部拿到A*，也还有一点小小的失望。
但无论如何，和年初的模考相比，这个成绩绝对是非常不错的了。今天和校长，老师们见面时，大家都对儿子的成绩异常满意。
加油吧，少年，期望你越飞越高。
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你儿子真棒
恭喜恭喜👍
I can relate to the thought almost word for word. The difference is that my father was no longer around when I started school. My mother, on the other hand, must have been at school for a meeting what felt like a hundred times.
However, I don't think that parental care necessarily has anything to do with a lack of trust. Perhaps it is simply that we observe our children very closely. We know ourselves and recognize certain traits, strengths, weaknesses, or behaviors in them. And when our children have inherited some of those genes from us, we may sometimes think we know what they might be facing.
That's why, to me, trust and concern don't necessarily contradict each other. You can trust your child and still worry about them. Perhaps that's simply part of being a parent.
好孩子太优秀啦！👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽恭喜恭喜！💐💐💐🍭🍭🍭👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
谢谢
谢谢O哥
Thank you so much for this insightful comment. You expressed something so fundamental to parenting that I really needed to hear.
What you said about trust and concern not contradicting each other resonates deeply with me. It’s so true - as parents, we watch our children so closely and see parts of ourselves mirrored in them, both the strengths and the vulnerabilities. Loving them means caring deeply about how they navigate those challenges, and that naturally brings worry, no matter how much trust we have in them.
I really appreciate you sharing your perspective and experience. It’s comforting to know that this mix of pride, concern, and constant reflection is just part of the shared journey of being a parent.
谢谢萍美女
少年优秀，越飞越高