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What is it like to give too much respect to a human being?
Happy Saturday!
Greetings to all Ecency users.
I have experienced this week what it costs a person to respect someone too much. Which I want to share with you guys.
Giving too much respect to a human being can have both positive and negative consequences. On the positive side it shows that you hold the person in high regard value their opinions and admire their qualities or achievements. It can create a positive atmosphere foster strong relationships and encourage reciprocity.
However when taken to an extreme giving too much respect can have negative consequences. It may lead to an imbalanced power dynamic where you subordinate yourself excessively. This can result in the other person taking advantage of you or treating you poorly. Additionally if you put someone on a pedestal and idealize them too much it can lead to disappointment when they inevitably fall short of your expectations.
Furthermore excessive respect can hinder healthy communication and collaboration. It may prevent you from expressing your own thoughts ideas or concerns as you prioritize the other person's perspective above your own. It can also hinder personal growth as you may become dependent on validation from others instead of cultivating your own self-confidence and autonomy.
Finding the right balance of respect is essential. It's important to show admiration and treat others with kindness but it should be tempered with maintaining your self-worth setting boundaries and asserting your needs. Remember that respect is a mutual exchange and should be given and received in a balanced manner.
I will never make such a mistake in my life. We should keep it to some extent specific to each human being.
Thanks, for stopping by
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Adding the two words, happy Saturday, do not make the content of this post about a weekend experience and therefore it will stay muted. If you have not read the posting guide I suggest you proceed directly there and do so. If you have read the posting guide and do not understand it, I suggest you clarify with me. If you have read the posting guide, understand it, but choose not to follow the guidelines in my community then...well, you'll receive some attention that I assume you'd rather not get.
I can't be more clear than the posting guide and the rules of this community that other people seem able to follow. I also can't be more clear about the ramifications of choosing, or persisting, not to follow them.
Please then let me know what the rule violation is in my post so I can fix it.
Because I don't understand the rules
Do you know about the existence of discord group, "Hivepakistan"? Your friend tahastories1 knows already! Hivepakistan answers any queries or doubts of any Pakistani users. If English language is the cause of miscommunication and misunderstanding, you can also learn in urdu language.
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You did not post about a weekend experience, simply some dribble about nothing really, which you probably didn't even write yourself. It is clearly not suited to this community as I have taken some pains to indicate in no uncertain terms.
Also, you're saying that you can't understand the rules? But...you understand enough to cast Ecency boosts upon yourself; you should try supporting the community and casting them on other users (and not your little cadre of vote farmers), you may find you build better relationships.
There's no fixing it, your post will remain muted.