It's not because...

It's not because you grew up being beaten that you have to beat...

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Just because you learned it the wrong way doesn't mean you have to do it the way you learned it... You can learn "a new one"

You don't have to get used to what's bad..

Just because you've been humiliated your whole life doesn't mean you need to get used to humiliation...

It's not because I was hurt that I need to hurt the other"

Only one healed can heal the other...

Everyone has a purpose in life and needs to fulfill that purpose.