TEAM

Does she always be the one to set up plans so you could have a chance to see each other?

Does she suppose to double text you all the time? Because if not, you will never bother to answer her?

Or is it you must be giving her as much as you have been taking from her?

Please make sure the relationship is even for the both of you so that she won’t feel like you are just taking advantage of her.

Going an extra mile genuinely is the perfect definition of effort.
A simple act of going out of your way for her happiness because you want to not because you have to.

Remember that she’ll know if it’s real.

Even if you go shopping with her but complaining how tired you are while strolling, it doesn’t count.

Even if you agree with her to meet her parents, but you’re distant and isolated the entire time, it doesn’t count.

Please remember that putting an effort should feel natural not an annoying errand when you love a person.

That doing things for her brings you joy because they bring her joy.