when the ball get lost

we have every right to say we are great,sometimes we do brag that we have it all, that we cant get down for once that life cant change our ways and wealth, life i mean circumstances . what is circumstance is an exam of life that prepares man the the greater feature, it makes the man that want to be successful prepare himself in life like Oscar Wilde will say (Experience s one thing you can't get for nothing)

   Be wise so that you can be strong when the get lost