IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH GAYS

I was one of the few chosen people to spent my every day, SINGLE. The chosen ones are the people who are special enough and love their selves so much which resorts to not getting a lifetime partner yet but rather settle things out before committing into such serious relationship while some of the chosen ones are simply unfortunate enough to find a partner in life so maybe, God has better plan for them than giving them lifetime companion. It is not really a problem if you’re single. If you are a member of it, you just have to be creative with your decisions in life while waiting for the one. We don’t have to mourn every day and looking out, hoping to find the one. That’s a big NO. To be honest, I was saddened to see so much couple celebrating each day happily. They were full of love in their eyes and so much joy in hearts, holding hands while walking and carrying gifts from the one that they love. While here is me, a total alone girl. Going home and eating alone, netflixing and chill while celebrating the day with your comfortable clothes will be a cool idea but not that creative and I am sure that will bring sadness to your heart because of the idea that everyone is happy outside while you are locked up inside your room.

Life is unfair but luckily, I met my gay friends and they became my greatest companions in life. In my previous blog which I talked about them shows how is my relationship with gays is going. If you haven't read about it yet, you can click [here](https://steemit.com/love/@devjanes/life-blog-having-a-gay-life). My life became so simple when they hit it because they don't mind what others will say towards them. *"life is to short to be unhappy"* is what they believe so they treasure every second and make everything positive as possible. They think differently than others plus they are not boring but rather so extra with everything. Since they are born not natural, they exaggerate everything by putting joy in simple things which makes it extraordinary.

I am just so thankful that gays were born in this world and express themselves positively though society, religion and others may not agree, they urge to get that freedom and be accepted on what they truly are. I can describe them as a Unicorn for that animal doesn't exist but yet fantastically, they produced a rainbow which gives us a colorful view of life in which gays are truly fit on that role. Many may disagree having a friendly relationship with gays but I want to change your minds and perspective about them and be open to gays. Gays are just **LIKE US**. they live in this world as a human being and doesn't deserve to be criticized just **LIKE YOU**. Gays have every right to express themselves positively without hurting another person. they are the rainbows after the rain and the Sunshine after the darkness. They play a big in our lives today which is not normal to others because they can't accept change in this society. Change is constant and it's happening every millisecond of our lives. the truth is people don't want change, they want to stay in their comfort zones and can't accept new things to adjust on.

So, for those who are in doubt and hate gays, try opening some doors for them and realize that they are just normal people except that they are born extra. Being with them means a lot that being with your toxic big circle. **Spread Love not Hate**.

Thank you for reading!

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