"Be someone in life"

Being someone in life is what many people tell you. But what is it to be someone in life? Is it doing things we do not like? Jobs we do not like? Do things for obligations and not because we like?
Perhaps more experienced people should give better advice, for example, & quot; do what you love & quot; Because then we are not going to look like a job, but rather as a pleasure, you would work with gusto and not for money, although this is an outburst, but it happens in the lives of many people.