a happiness

When someone does that relationship with the name dating then they all have no happiness in living a relationship they get. Why is that, because what they are fighting for is not necessarily their relationship to marriage and there is one more thing that they strive for is just useless, why so, because in the category of courtship is very much that his name is mutually painful to each other, sometimes they are often mutually replace their partner because they are tired of contacting him, then there is no happiness there at all and pain each other's feelings to each other. So what I need to say here is a happiness in living a relationship or a bond of love to wake up to the end of the life and no one's name to hurt each other is when we are married. So dating after marriage is very beautiful and very romantic, why as we are already husband and wife and our relationship is already halal