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How I Will React When Someone Is Saying A Derogatory Things About Me in Public
Being at a party suppose to be a fun place where everyone fells relax and have fun. And also have interaction with others or even connect with them too. Imagine if I stay in this kind of environment where different kinds of people is and am hearing someone saying negative things about me. It is not a good thing to experience because it will hurt me seriously.
Well if I find myself in this type of situation the first thing I will do is to stay calm. Yeah the reason why I said that I will stay calm is because If I react the way am being hurt it will lead to another thing, my anger can make it to even go worse so instead of reacting I will decide if the matter worth reacting before I react.
But if I see the matter is a small case or the person is just doing it to gain attention from me. I will just ignore the person and protect my peace because not all matter is worth fighting for.
But if I see that matter is too much for me like am not comfortable again, what I will do is to remove myself from that environment if am uncomfortable. Because my peace of mind is very important than staying in a toxic place.
I always tell myself that people's negative words always reflect more about them than me so I choose to focused on my value and not to let anyone's opinion to bring me down.
So handling this kind of thing requires me to be self-controlled, to have confidence and to also know my worth.
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I think you've highlighted some good ways to go about such situation. We should know how to resolve these kind of situations.
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Very nice post. I used to feel bad and hate myself whenever this happens but i know better now. Thanks for sharing❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🥂🙏❤️❤️❤️
Abiooo, sometimes, it may even be clout chasing because these days, people seek attention and, as a result, want to be noticed through such behaviour. Ignoring such persons or walking away to protect one's peace is the ideal way to handle such a situation.
I hear you. Our peace is more important than justifying what other people say about us. Ignoring those is wise. Thank you !LADY💖
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Depending on how serious the statement that was claimed I may not let that pass, a case such that it may effect my safety or myself or my family, endanger my home and property or deprive me of my income. Food for thought. @ozibaby Anything less, I'd ignore.
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You are right dear,that is why I said if the person just wants to gained attention from me I will just ignore and pass.
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Am telling you dear, our peace is very important to us seriously.thank you for stopping by I really appreciate.
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Yes dear you Rlare very right.
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My dear it use to hurt sorry for felling sad. As a shy person I am if I don't leave their I my can leads to another thing so I choose my peace or I leave their.
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Yes dear is very important
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We are same, I avoid toxic people too in my life. I choose my peace of mind to avoid stressed.
Seriously dear and is good like that
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