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Temilade

@lifeoflade

A mother trying to figure life out....

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Temilade
@lifeoflade Jun 6, 2025, 12:36 AM UTC

When Sleep Fights Back: My Battle With Sleep Paralysis

https://images.ecency.com/DQmd8rPzTTHRwfv7m1ZmLeeC2ihoLQk3GLKTFDySscUHk1D/whatsapp_image_2025_05_22_at_11.55.44_am.jpeg I honestly can’t remember when it started, this strange, terrifying thing. All…

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Temilade
@lifeoflade Jun 2, 2025, 4:59 PM UTC

The Rod, the Yell, and the Wound We Don’t See

Why do we think yelling is the only way to raise disciplined children? That question has been sitting heavy in my chest for a while now. I don’t mean it in a judgmental way, because I’ve yelled too.…

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Temilade
@lifeoflade Jun 1, 2025, 3:10 AM UTC

Parenting Isn’t Just Love........It’s Design.

Parenting isn’t just love and instinct, it’s design. That might sound odd at first, but here’s what behavioural science teaches us: human behaviour is more shaped by environment and subtle cues than…

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Temilade
@lifeoflade May 30, 2025, 9:19 AM UTC

Quiet not Guilty.

Image created with Canva They said Don’t trust quiet people. They said we’re snakes. Hiding. Calculated. Green under green grass. So when I walk into a room and sit instead of announcing, they squint…

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Temilade
@lifeoflade May 29, 2025, 11:33 AM UTC

For My Own Good But On My Own Terms. Contest Number #239

I’ve heard the phrase “It’s for your own good” more times than I can count. Made with Canva Growing up, it came from adults trying to steer me right. Later, it came from friends or even society’s sub…

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Temilade
@lifeoflade May 27, 2025, 11:00 AM UTC

If I Had 10 Minutes With Her

A friend sent me some old photos recently. At first, I smiled, the kind of soft smile that creeps in when you see something familiar and far away simultaneously. But as I kept looking, something deep…

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Temilade
@lifeoflade May 24, 2025, 12:00 AM UTC

When My Daughter Said She Didn’t Want to Go to School

My daughter loves school. In fact, she loves any opportunity to go out, explore, and just be around people. So when she started saying, “I don’t want to go to school,” I was immediately concerned. It…

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Temilade
@lifeoflade May 23, 2025, 2:00 AM UTC

Alone, Not Lonely — Why Solo Travel Became My Favorite Form of Self-Care #238

There’s something magical about packing a bag, booking a ticket, and going somewhere, just for you. No waiting on anyone. No trying to please anybody. Just your pace, your choices, your healing. That…

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Temilade
@lifeoflade May 22, 2025, 10:15 AM UTC

That One Cinema Date That Still Makes Me Smile

You know those days that sneak up on you quietly… but live rent-free in your heart forever? That’s what this day was for me. It wasn’t my birthday. It wasn’t a vacation or a big event. It was just a…

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Temilade
@lifeoflade May 14, 2025, 2:00 AM UTC

When My Daughter Danced with Me Before God

This morning started like any other. Or so I thought. The house was still quiet, the air soft with the scent of dawn. As I always try to, I carved out those first sacred minutes of the day to worship…

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